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healing of karmic illusions

I’ve visited Mexico City many times in my life and each time I would watch in wonder as people would process towards the Basilica de Guadalupe on their knees. At that time I did not understand why these people would suffer so much so that suffering would end, but ultimately their faith would help pave the way for change in their lives. They believed they would be helped if they paid a price. As I grow in the Reiki healing modality, I begin to understand that one’s frame of mind has everything to do with one’s ability to heal.

If we are so engrossed in our own discomforts and can not see past our infirmities, we struggle with moving beyond what is keeping us from health, but when we can see a clear path to health we often travel the path much faster and with little, if any complications.

What brought this up? I read an article today where someone was in the hospital and saw an event which concluded with negative results. The person witnessed someone else experiencing severe pain. A passing nurse offered Reiki to help ease the pain. The nurse claimed she was a Reiki master and so the person experiencing the pain agreed.  The “master” placed a hand above the person’s head and one behind her back while concentrating with her eyes closed. After a few moments she made motions like she was pulling something out of the person’s body and throwing it away. The nurse repeated the motion several times with her hands in different positions. The whole process took 5 to 6 minutes. The nurse stopped when she was paged to a patient’s room. The person receiving the treatment never noticed the nurse left because her pain was overwhelming. The person’s response was, “I just need my morphine.” The writer of the article then goes on to say they suspected the person was addicted to the morphine. The writer also stated that Reiki was “bullshit” because of that one experience.  If that was my only experience with Reiki, I might say the very same thing.

There are of course several things going on in this example, the first of which is that the alleged Reiki master should have known better than to offer Reiki to someone in acute distress. Reiki is NEVER a substitute for real medical emergency care and should only be offered when the person is not in critical need. Reiki is not a crutch, it is a tool to help a person grow towards health and wellness; not some quick fix. A real Reiki master would know that, especially given that the alleged master in this case was also a nurse.

You were my favorite drug

Second, the person experiencing the pain was under the influence of a highly addictive narcotic which just happens to also cloud the mind. If I see someone in excruciating pain, the first thing I’m going to ask is did they take something for the pain. We would have gotten to the fact this person was using harsh pain killers in which case the alleged master should have again recommended immediate emergency care and NOT Reiki.

All this brings us to the third thing: what was the person’s intention? If all they wanted was their morphine then the alleged master asserted their own dominance and control over the situation by not asking for the person’s intent. Reiki practitioners are not supposed to be ego driven miracle workers. We are supposed to be people who help others walk their own paths of health and wellness.

This brings us to the third thing: what was the person’s intention? If all they wanted was their morphine then the alleged master asserted their own dominance and control over the situation by not asking for the person’s intent. Reiki practitioners are not supposed to be ego driven miracle workers. We are supposed to be people who help others walk their own paths of health and wellness. The practitioner was passing by and inserted themselves in a situation that could have proven disastrous.

The person experiencing the pain may have been going through withdrawals from the narcotic, there is just no way of knowing, and an alleged master broke with ethical practice to help where they may not have been wanted, but more to the point, the person on the morphine may not have been in any frame of mind for healing. A drug addict only wants the next fix, not the solution. Because of the actions of one alleged master, one person has a negative opinion of this wonderful healing modality.

Healing must first begin with a person wanting to be healed. All the best medicine in the world will never be enough if a person does not actually want to be healed. There are people who thrive on illness because it provides them attention. They will never reach full health because their minds will continue creating one illness after another.  Care must be given to empower a person to want to heal, then and only then can true healing begin.

Healing must begin with the willingness to heal.  When a person wants to heal, they will find the right path and avenue to achieve that end result.

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For some unknown reason the song “Put On A Happy Face” has been running through my mind this morning.  Perhaps it is the gray clouds lingering behind from the midnight showers, or perhaps because of a bit of personal apprehension regarding an upcoming presentation in a new and totally unknown forum.  What ever the reason, the way I personally get through the anxiety is to focus on the needs of the people I am serving at that moment, and only that moment.  From the moment I let go of my own anxiety and walk a path mindful of others along the way, I begin to release what ever tensions have built up inside myself.

Hearing all of this is truly nothing new, but I do believe this is the first time I have heard a leader in the religious world actually say that we should not ignore our own needs in favor of someone else’.  I simply can not stress enough how important it is to be aware of your own needs during times of anxiety.

Anxiety and fear make us hyper aware of our immediate surroundings and so we quickly pick up on things which may pose threats to our own well being.  When we ignore those signs in favor of taking care of someone else, we risk hurting ourselves, which can be a subtle form of self-destructive behavior.

A great many professional and religious leaders have said time and time again, that when we are “broken” we are less likely to help others around us because we are unable to do so based on our own state of being.  Basically that means we can’t help others when we are broken.

The aforementioned focusing on others is a tool to focus on something other than our anxiety or fear.  It is not meant to supersede our own needs, but is instead meant to help us through a moment which is perceived to be difficult.

In a nutshell, we can use focusing on others as a tool to get through our own stress.  Another tool we can use is by replaying the following words over and over and over and over and over in your minds.

Gray skies are gonna clear up
Put on a happy face
Wipe off the clouds and cheer up
Put on a happy face

…

So spread sunshine all over the place
Just put on a happy face.
~ “Put On A Happy Face” from the musical Bye Bye Birdie by Michael Stewart (That one took some research to figure out… Who’da thunk.  I always thought the lyrics came from the TV commercial for a mop product…)

Light and Love Everyone!

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Words Cannot Express

So many voice, but only one mind to control them.
So many facets of one being, but only one being; all.

This is how it has been since the beginning of time, and this is how it shall always be, and yet beneath the frailty of our being exists a beauty seen only in rare glimpses when we bear ourselves open to the fullness of the Great Divine in all things, and all of being-ness.

We ARE the purified expressions of a created-ness long ago made manifest through the Divine universal energy which exists in, through, and around all things.

And still we bumble about wondering who we are and where we are going little realizing we are still a part of the very thing which created us.

We are energy.  We ARE energy.  We are ENERGY~

Blessings+

We all live in our own bubbles

Imagine for a moment you are walking down the street and can actually create the world in which you live.

This past week we had a client who continually said they didn’t want to be around negative or incompetent people, and she kept saying that over and over again, and then it hit me: the reason she was surrounded by those types of people is because she was continually focusing on that type of energy.  She was subconsciously drawing in the negative energy she was trying to keep out because her focus was on the negative, not the positive. When we brought this to her attention she looked like someone had slapped her in the face.

We sometimes become so focused on what we don’t want in this life that we forget to focus on what it is we DO want.  When become mired in the difficulties we never see that the path actually deviates around the problems.   Then we sit on our pity-pots crying the world is unfair and that we are incapable of positive things in our lives.

The world is exactly what we make it.  When we see only the strife and hardships,  then we are really focusing in on that type of energy and draw it towards ourselves, allowing it to feed upon our fears, and upon our own negativity.  When we are able to look beyond the mess in front of us to the possibility of hope and joy, then we allow for the opportunity for growth and new life.

When negative stuff happens, learn from it.  Take something positive away with you when you leave the negative behind.  Find a lesson worth learning and turn the page to a new chapter.

What do you want in this lifetime? Set a goal.  Now go get it and stop focusing on why you can not achieve your goal.  Focus instead on the goal and think of it as already achieved.

As you begin to focus on the positive in life, so too will you reflect that positivity to others.  When you show a positive and loving light, so too will you attract that positivity to your own life.

Go forth and reflect.

Waterfall With Sunrays

With all that happens in the world, how do you take time for yourself?  Do you take time for yourself?

Self Care is much more than personal health maintenance [Wikipedia:Self_care], it is an assurance that you are looking after your own needs in a way that keeps you both healthy and happy.

Self Care regimens should include one or more of the following:

1. Taking time out of a busy day to relax and breath; if everyday is busy then this should be done everyday.
2. Making sure you are physically healthy.
3. Making sure you are emotionally healthy.
4. Making sure you are psychologically healthy.
   (The above three should really be considered as one large point, but they are equally valid independent of the others.)
5. If you are a spiritual person, then you should also make sure you are spiritually healthy.
6. Take time away from work (in other words do not go into, or bring home work from the office on your days off.)
7. Continuing education (no matter what kind of class you take you should continue to learn and grow.)
8. Making sure you are ethical in all things.

Innerworks has a wonderful chart of 60 ways to nurture the self located at: http://www.innerworkspublishing.com/news/vol1/selfcare.htm

One of the ways I used to take care of myself was by driving out of town once a week to a remote location.  The actual location didn’t much matter, but the driving and getting away from my normal surroundings was a very important routine which helped me decompress and let go of the stuff which may have come up during the week.  I would often find secluded spots in the mountains or near a lake, and I would spend hours just staring off into the beauty that surrounded me.  I let go of that routine a long time ago in favor of the more… harried …pace and have noticed a change within my core being, until my wife and I finally took a much needed vacation.  Three years without a vacation equals not good.  Add to that rarely taking days off, or on those days off doing nothing but chores.

The consequence for not taking care of the self can be devastating.

Find a way to ensure you are taking care of yourself.  Let go of bad habits and negative people which may surround you, and remember this: if you are ill or unable to take care of yourself, how can you expect to take care of someone else?

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The seven major Chakras

The Fifth Chakra is more than just the center for the throat.  Aside from the obvious, this chakra focuses on the expression of one’s self through thought as well as voice.  Clear communication, where thoughts and ideas are expressed, come from this chakra. This is the center for one’s needs, wants and feelings. It deals with ideals, philosophy, psychology and the need to understand at the intellectual level.

Thoughts too have a voice of their own and can carry with them the full power of the throat chakra. How much of one’s thoughts remain in the past, or worry about the future, and have difficulty dealing with, and remaining in the present?

Thoughts are not merely expressions of the mind, but help us further our own needs.  We  carefully discern what it is we choose to say by rationalizing our thoughts, thinking how we wish to convey our message, and then finally formulating the words which will be expressed.  Much of this happens with lightening speed, but it is the same process for each and every person.

So, let’s use our Fifth Chakra for a moment and think about how thoughts then relate to energy.

We know sounds we make through our mouths carry with them a form of energy known as frequencies.  They are real waves that can be measured by scientific equipment.  Well, so too can thought be measured by scientific devices, only those devices measure a different type of frequency known as “Waves”, and are broken down into 4 main waves: alpha, beta, delta, and theta ["The Physics Factbook" http://hypertextbook.com/facts/].  These waves can move far beyond the person from whom they are emanating.

Now, put intention behind those thoughts.  What do you think will happen?

Reiki teaches us that energy will go where it is needed, but so too will energy which is given life and purpose through our thoughts.  When we think negative thoughts, we create for ourselves a negative environment and attract like energy.  When we think positive thoughts the same thing happens and our surroundings become filled with positivity and renewed vigor.

But think for a moment what happens when we direct our thoughts towards someone else, or towards another situation separate from ourselves.  What happens then?  Energy is put into motion through intention, whether realized or not, and goes out to that particular situation.  If someone there picks up on that energy and accepts it, then cycles whether negative or positive, are perpetuated.  Regardless of whether the thoughts are positive or negative, they are sent and the person sending those thoughts MUST be willing to accept responsibility for those thoughts.

Thoughts have power and can either support us and bring us to new heights, or can depress us and force us to new lows.

Which would you rather have?

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What do I want to do when I grow up?

I remember being asked the all important question every child faces on an almost daily basis, “What do you want to be when you grow up?”  I quickly became frustrated with that question because it seemed no one wanted to get to know who I was, they only wanted to know what I wanted to become.  As a child, I couldn’t care less what I would become so I would often announce my career choice based on what ever happened to impact me that day.  Seldom, if ever, did any of those announcements carry with it the weight of “WHO” I was to become, only what I wanted to do with my life.

I also remember one particular day when I looked up at my father and said with all my might and the largest smile I could muster, “I want to be a good and wise man when I grow up.” I was quickly admonished for not thinking about what to do with my life, but I kept that lofty goal in my heart where it would remain safe and sound till I could once again look upon its innocent wisdom.  In the past few months I have often sat alone with myself in quiet contemplation thinking back to that day when I boldly stated who I wanted to be, rather than what I wanted to be.  Little did I know that one day would have such a lasting and permanent effect on my being.

“WHAT” we want to do with our lives changes greatly from time to time throughout our lives, but “WHO” we want to be should be the foundation of our entire way of life, and not just something to which we aspire, but actually something practiced and honed which will, in the long run, give us that personal sense of accomplishment and value.

Well, I’ve long sense grown and still find myself constantly evolving and growing, and I still ask myself the questions, “What do I want to do?”, and “Is this all there is?”  I find very little solace in empty answers.  But when I change my question to “Who do I want to become” suddenly the doors open wide and the limits disappear.

We are a people who constantly reinvent ourselves, but we are also on a evolutionary road.  We have the opportunity to become greater than the sum of our parts and grow into the type of being we wish to be, rather than focus on our life’s career path.

Let’s face facts, the career choice will always be an issue.  Do I work here, or there?  Do I change jobs?  Do I become a doctor, or take a different career path?  Do I go back to school and do something else with my life?  These are all questions we face throughout our lives.

Our internal personal growth, however, should remain fairly constant and maintain a singular focus on our internal being.  It may vary from time to time, but “WHO” we are should seldom, if ever change.  Sitting with ourselves and truly examining our core help us to grow in ways we may never have allowed ourselves to contemplate.

For you parents, it is nice to have children who can support themselves and do well in the world, but is that all there is?  Is that all you want for your child?  Try asking the truly difficult question and see what happens.  Instead of the usual, ask “WHO do you want to become?”

My answer is: Me. If your answer is that you want to be like someone else, then perhaps sit in silence with yourself and try to discover why you would rather be someone other than yourself.

Peace to all.

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Just for this moment, just for this one brief period of time, sit alone with yourself and allow for the perception of craziness by talking to yourself.  Yes I know that is a vision often reserved for those individuals who have been pushing their lives down the streets in little steel caged buggies often called shopping carts, but allow yourself this one indulgence.  Believe you me, they who talk to themselves openly are the lucky ones.  They have not a care in the world and are free to “be” as they please and often without limitations imposed by society.

Let us take a few moment from our busy lives to examine a form of private meditation which allows an individual to come to a greater awareness of themselves through open communication with all parts of individual identity.  I have found great comfort in silence and often sit with myself in personal examination and discovery.  It is through this sitting in silence with the self that we grow beyond our current limitations.

To begin, just relax, focus on your own breathing, and from time to time  silently ask yourself this question: “Who is aware?” In the silence of the response, you will begin to feel your own consciousness rise up from the very core of your being. Instead of asking “Who is aware,” you can instead repeat your own name silently to yourself over and over, trying to determine what your name really means.  Of course what ends up happening is not so much discovering what your “name” means, but what you mean to yourself.

By observing yourself observing yourself, you enter an infinite progression or mental loop, until there is no difference between you the observer, and you the person doing the observation, or between you and your own consciousness.  That intimate core awareness is a big part of your true identity, your true self.

Out of the intense focusing of your own being on yourself, something wondrous begins to unfold; your individuality begins to fade away and you begin to realize the vastness to which you are eternally connected.

Through this type of meditation, you will begin to realize that the loss of the ego-dominated personality is not an extinction of the self, but is instead the only true purity of life and just the beginning of a wondrous and awesome exploration of all that exists.

Sit in silence with yourself and being your own discovery of being-ness.

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the path

I sometimes reflect on a song by Michael Card and John Michael Talbot called “One Faith”.  It’s a great song.  I like it.  It gets my toes to wiggling, and my foot to tapping, but sometimes I sit with a very specific line from the chorus, “There is one faith, one hope, and one baptism, one God and father of all.”  No matter who you are, where you are from, or what you believe, there is something in that sentence which binds us all to one another.

One Faith
We share a common bond that we exist together with the understanding that first and foremost, we exist. We have faith we exist not because we think we exist, but because we are aware enough to realize we do exist. We have individual thoughts, and we are not all the same.  It is our common bond which unites all people everywhere.

We are not talking belief here, we are talking true acceptance of a thing which we know exists because we experience it in the fullness in which it exists.  It is corporeal and others share in its reality.

One Hope
Let’s be honest in that one thing we can all agree upon is that we all have a hope of some sort, whether that hope is of something tangible or intangible, or secret or common knowledge.  Our hope is for something which personally affects us in some way even if the affect is that we are happy our hope has been fulfilled.  Our hopes may not be for the same thing, but we do hope.

One Baptism
Yes, even those who are not religious have One, and only one baptism: birth.  We are all born.  We have all come into existence.  Our existence takes on a ceremonial significance through our emergence into this world through our births, and with us comes the water of life which sustained us through our growth in the womb.  We enter the world soaking wet from head to toes and our life is in itself a celebration.

One God
Despite its name, there exists only one unifying force of the Universe.  It has gone by many names throughout the history of this world and to be honest, it really doesn’t matter how many different names there are; what matters is only that it exists regardless of its function or name.  This force exists through, with, and in all things everywhere in the known and unknown.  It’s up to each of us to decide for ourselves how we celebrate that unifying force.

One Father
I could go the easy route and say that yes, we each have a male parent because scientifically we each have male and female parts which have combined to create cellular division in the womb.

I could also go the other easy route and say that the One God, or the one unifying force of all creation is God the Father as represented by the Holy Bible, and exists as the Only God who shepherds us and takes care of us like a father with His children.

Instead I think I’m going to take a different tack.  There is another definition of Father which is a singular person who guides (1913 Webster).  There is a guiding force throughout the universe, call it what you will, which helps us on our individual paths of life.  Sometimes the One Father is the biological father in our lives.  Sometimes the Father is the Deity in which we place our faith and trust.  Sometimes the One Father is that nagging feeling in the back of our minds that we left the iron on, or the stove, or something else which just seems amiss and out of the ordinary.  What ever you choose to call it, it is that one guiding force which helps move us along our paths in life.

We exists as single entities of this world interconnected through the Divine or through the common existence we share upon this earth.  We are here and there are those around us with whom we share our being.  We are diverse.  We have our own ways of doing things which sometimes coincides with the ways others do things, but we ARE, first and foremost.

Once we allow ourselves to open to the One-ness which exists in all things, then we can finally open ourselves to the possibility of existing together as One in BEING!  Though we may have many different skin types, colors, and patterns, we are still one LIVING force.

Period.

Ruminating is fun when you really think about it. 

K

Reiki With A Twist™ is a trademarked name. You are free to use both the method and name so long as you include Janet C. Soldon and Kenneth J. Nelan as the trademark owners/creators.

In Search of Light

I, like my wife, have been a Reiki practitioner for almost as long as I’ve been a Reiki master/teacher.  I was taught old school, which is to say that I was taught through apprenticeship and was not even allowed to practice on someone until my teacher thought my heart was pure, my mind was clear, and my intention was NOT one filled with ego.

But through the years I have come to learn that not everything is as Ms. Takata brought back to use from Dr. Usui.  In fact much of what Dr. Usui taught seemingly fell to the wayside and is not being “re-rediscovered” by those ambitious enough to not let go of their calling, and let’s be real here for a second, this is a calling.  Through relentless searching and years of practice, we are now discovering that much of what Ms. Takata brought back to the United States was the “fluff and stuff” of Reiki and not at all what was original to this wonderful healing art.  (Let’s also remember that Ms. Takata did NOT learn Reiki from Dr. Usui, but instead learned Reiki from Dr. Hayashi who developed a modified version of Reiki at Dr. Usui’s request.)

Many years ago, more than I care to admit, my wife and I began a quest to discover what was, and what was not genuine to Reiki.  We did this by carefully observing reactions to treatments and classes.  We learned to open ourselves to the Reiki energy not just during a treatment, but also while simply talking to people both before and after treatments and classes.  What we found astounded us and truly changed our own perception of Reiki and helped to guide us towards a more holistic private practice.  We found that much of what we thought we knew was really just the tip of the iceberg, and that there were so many subtleties and nuances which have been missed, and even some outright falsehoods.  This has lead us to begin teaching two part courses; one part is pure Usui method as brought to the West by Ms. Takata, and the other is “Reiki With A Twist™” which incorporates all that we have learned through years of practice and research.

No Wash Back

No Wash Back

Let’s take for instance the concept of “No Wash Back”.  We’ve all heard the teaching that “No Wash Back” exists, though my wife and I have discovered that very few, if any teachers actually explain the “No Wash Back” principle.

In a nutshell the “No Wash Back” effect is simply that the practitioner will not receive the affliction or energy of the client or person receiving a treatment.  The energy essentially only flows one way; through the practitioner into or through the client, and then back out to the universe to be cleansed and reused.  The cycle then lathers, rinses, and repeats.

The reality is of course much different than the teaching, which by the way was never original to Dr. Usui’s teachings.  In fact, one of the core concepts taught by Dr. Usui was that the practitioner must know and understand themselves so they do not get caught up in the “stuff” of the person they are assisting.

The reality in practice is that we are constantly sensing the energy to see if a shift of the energy occurs.  Once we recognize the shift, we then move on to the next hand position.  If we do not sense a shift, we try to discover why the shift has not occurred so that we may have to use a Reiki symbol, or help the energy flow properly to, and through the next chakra.  It is that sensing part which leaves us vulnerable to all sorts of “stuff” coming from the person on whom we are helping to move energy.  Wash Back does indeed occur.  In fact it happens more often than not especially to those who are ill-prepared for what may happen.  The fact of the matter is that Wash Back is real, does happen, and should be taught so that students will know how to avoid becoming trapped in someone else’s “stuff”.  At the very least, Reiki teachers should be teaching how to avoid wash back rather than teaching it doesn’t exist.

It is simple things like this which my wife and I discovered and have now incorporated into our own practice.  It is amazing what one can learn if one is willing to open their eyes, and look beyond their own ego.

My mantra for today? There is much I have yet to learn, and much I must unlearn so I may learn it all over again.

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Joy and Love to all.

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